Archives for the month of: May, 2011

If you are interested in yoga, there is absolutely no excuse why you shouldn’t give it a try.  Zero.  Allow me to explain.

Practicing yoga in San Francisco’s Castro District is great for people watching.  But that’s not what I am there for.  During class, I am typically so internally focused on my meditation, breath and asana movements that I don’t tend to notice others much.  However, our teacher periodically asks us at the beginning of class to acknowledge the other people in the room, our community that has come together to share our practice.  Today I made eye contact with a man I’ve seen before but hadn’t paid much attention.  For the sake of clarity, I’ll call him Bob.

Bob is probably in his mid 50s, super hairy and about 60 pounds overweight.  Today he happened to be practicing right behind me.  During downward dog, I looked back between my legs and saw Bob.  He was on all fours, staring down at the floor.  His body wouldn’t let him practice this relatively basic pose.  It broke my heart for a split second until I remembered that was his practice!  I could hear his soft breathing, still present, still on his mat as an active participant.  Bob was listening to his body, going as far as he could without pain, yet with calm focus and intention.

Bob comes to class twice a week.  He does the poses he can, and for the ones he can’t he takes a break in a position like child’s pose.  He breathes.  He meditates.  He shows up.  And he smiles.

This is a perfect case in point that yoga really is for every body.  Sure, not every body will be able to move and bend into full or even partial expression in every pose, but that’s not where the true benefit of yoga comes from.  The true benefit comes from showing up: using your breath, quieting your mind, and gently exploring the movements and limitations of your body.  It’s not a race and it’s not a competition.  It’s a mind-body practice that has more benefits than I can count.  And Bob gets it.

What is holding you back from trying yoga?


“Our greatest strength as a human race is the ability to acknowledge our differences, our biggest failure is our ability to embrace them.”
~ Judith Henderson

Why is that?

On a recent trip to Miami Beach to relax and celebrate my anniversary with the Zen Guy, we were mesmerized by people watching.  Tall, short, skinny, fat, black, white, loud, quiet, funny, serious, rude, kind, liberal, conservative, locals, tourists and everything in between.  On Day 1, I was in shock.  On Day 2, I was curious.  On Day 3, I decided to be myself. On Day 4, I was practicing yoga headstands on the beach.

It’s easy to compare ourselves to others and focus on what it is we lack in comparison.  “Oh she’s so skinny, I wish I was as thin as her.” It’s also easy to judge and criticize others for being deficient in some way that is not up to our standards.  “I can’t believe he just said that!”  But this attitude and way of thinking limits our growth. It boxes us in and shuts us down. (more…)

“We teach often what we most need to learn.” ~ Richard Bach

Sometimes life has to smack us in the face in order to get us to listen. This is an unfortunate repercussion of not paying attention to something our body, mind or heart is trying to tell us.  It can bring us to total inability to function in a certain area of our lives.  That’s what happened to me, anyway.

A sinus infection hit me a few weeks ago and I thought, Huh, this is odd, I haven’t been sick in a long time. Because I am no stranger to this annoying bug from living in smoggy Southern California for years, I mindlessly fed myself antibiotics, a couple of Advil and kept plugging away with work and play, ignoring my body’s gentle call to take a time out and rest.  I was having so much fun, why would I ?  Rest is for the weak! I don’t need to rest! I still wonder where that judgmental voice came from, but alas, I marched along.

Then things got worse.  (more…)